My wish for 2019

1.  Know your worth - girl, you are AMAZING.  I don't care what has happened, where you have been or what size your jeans used to be.  I only see how incredibly strong, courageous and brave you are - and gosh I wish you could see it too. 

2.  Be the person we want our kids to be.  Be the one who walks past the clicky group of mums standing outside school to go and say hi to the one who is sitting alone.  You will bring more sunshine that you can realise to a person who has had a hard day.  Always choose to be the sunshine!  

3.  Celebrate your success - be humble like Kayne - and yes, I know Kayne has none! That's my point! But seriously, if you have worked your ass off and you succeed - then that gives you permission to celebrate baby!  

4.  Celebrate OTHERS!  If someone is smashing goals - tell them you admire them!  Don't let jealousy or comparison creep in and poison your grass and theirs!  The grass isn't greener on the other side because someone is 'lucky' - it is greener because they have worked hard, showed up and given it 110%.  

5.  Fear and excitement are the SAME emotion!  They release the same endorphins!  Teach your brain that you can do ANYTHING and give it your 110% positive attitude.  I'm still working on my fear of snakes and my fear of the gym....but in terms of business....nothing scares me.  You can do ANYTHING! 

6.  Demand MORE and know that you are worthy of MORE!  Never settle for a lifetime of unhappiness when opportunity is knocking at your door.  

7.  It's ok to say NO and it's ok for people to tell you NO!  Don't be offended by it and don't waste a second worrying about their reaction.  So many people send themselves to the brink trying to be EVERYTHING for EVERYONE....and then having nothing to give to yourself.  

8.  In the words of Rachel Hollis "Someone else's opinion of you is none of your business".  If you haven't read her book or listened to her podcast "Girl, Wash your Face!" then get onto it!   

9.  Stay away from negative people or anyone that makes you feel gross.  Negativity breeds like chicken pox in a hippy commune....

10.  Turn up!  Show up!  Work Hard!  When you fall down - hop back up again stronger - and do it all over again!  

You can do this!  Just be YOU - and believe in YOU!